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If this does not get you excited then nothing will! This article is written for two kinds of people in mind- for someone who, financially, things are difficult. And for someone who cannot craft a personal roadmap to success, happiness, contentment etc! This article will shed some light!
First let?s put this into perspective, what is personal development? It is the act of taking steps towards improving yourself or life in areas you feel you are lacking. It is also an act of finding a better way to handle dysfunctional emotions and thoughts. It just depends on an individual on what they want to handle about their life.
Second question is, why do we need self development? Because as we grow up we experience life in a way we totally didn?t envision when we were young. Our life plans crumble before our very eyes; we get emotionally challenged by events happening in and around us, we develop habitual behaviors that don?t serve us, etc. So we need self help materials to unlearn our old ways and habits that do not serve us anymore, we need ways to improve our relationships, we need to heal wounds from childhood, we need robust ways to deal with a whirlpool of our destructive emotions.
On the flip side we need self improvement to acquire new skills to handle challenging situations in life better. We learn to read and write, how to run a business, how to eat healthy, how to be a better communicator, marketing, etc. We develop personal skills to be a better employee, a loving spouse, a compassionate boss, or be qualified for that new job to get a better pay, learn how to use the computer to avoid being laid off, etc. The list goes on and on. It boils down to an individual noticing what it is that they need to develop about themselves to enjoy the fruits of what they would become.
If you?ve noticed I have described two different types of self development ? self development dealing with the psyche, or mind or emotion (something along those lines) and another that involves acquiring a skill like writing, communication, or dancing etc. The former normally addresses your subconscious while the latter is a classroom kind of style.
Let me explain, self development that addresses your subconscious works on your belief system, it helps you to (consciously or unconsciously) identify your self-defeating thoughts to replace them with constructive thoughts. This is the kind of self help that suddenly you find yourself seeing life in a whole new way and realize your fate is not cast in stone. You become aware that you can craft your future the way you like.
The classroom type of self development, is the kind of teaching where you practically do something. Say you want to learn how to drive a car, your take a course. You want to be a better mother to your child, you take a course on parenting. You want to be an internet marketer; you take a course on internet marketing?Though I say classroom style I don?t mean to say this learning must be formal. It can be an informal type of learning. You don?t need a degree or certificate to be a better parent all you need is buy self help books or attend a self growth seminar!
I don?t want to mess up these two meanings! So here is my next attempt to explain these types of self development; Lisa Nichols, one of the teachers in the hit movie The Secret, coins it beautifully in her No Matter What Home Study Course. In her introduction to the course she says this course is ?designed to speak to you in many levels, it is multi-faceted unlike traditional ones which can be linear, teaching you from many angles sort of like an octopus?? So simply put the teaching that addresses your subconscious is multi faceted while the classroom kind I refer to is more traditional style of teaching. I hope this clarifies it a bit!
There are programs that bridge the gap between classroom style of teaching and the subconscious style of personal development, and there are those that are a combination of the two. Each method or option is OK depending on the individual. Some people want to develop personal skills, some need to know how to handle certain emotions, some need to find ways to connect with their thoughts, etc. More often than not when we come to realize that we need to improve ourselves in some way, we become faced with 2 major problems;
- lack of money and/or
- the roadmap to guide our way
Lack of money may be due to not earning enough money or purchasing every self help book or program that comes our way (with no or little results) and end up being broke! The second problem (i.e. when you don?t have a roadmap to follow) is two fold; it may lead to lack of money because of haphazardly purchasing anything or just the lack of knowledge of what is best. One of the best options to alleviate the 2 above problems is to find a system or product that gives you the ability to raise more money and at the same time provide a roadmap of how you can improve your life?
I could go on here but I have lack of space to recommend a few programs you can use. However do not despair go to my resource box below and click on the link to see which programs you can use for your self development.
Tirelo Besele encourages and helps people realize that their future is not cast in stone! A choice of a very good self development program or book can mean all the difference in their life. To see which personal development programs he has personally used and used to improve his life please visit his blog: http://www.learntocreatemoney.com/blog
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